It may be best for bottoms to view the hookup sites as a screening process to find regular fuck buddies and then do everything you can to be available when the FB needs a hole since some tops like to have dependable bottoms on call (not me so much – I like variety). But if you’ve got a demanding job, or a boyfriend, etc. being constantly available can be impossible.

Then there’s the whole body type issue. Some bottoms just find it easier to get fucked because they’re considered ‘hot’ by a broader selection of guys. I know perfectly hot bottoms who hate it when some porn star goes into a sex club – ’cause all the tops want to give their loads to the porn star and the regular guys go home empty. Unfortunately, the closer a bottom can get to one of the popular types the more they’ll get fucked. It’s sorta like why ugly rich straight men always have beautiful thin women as wives and girlfriends.

Another issue is the whole safe sex vs raw thing. Given how competitive it is for bottoms and how many bottoms will go raw and take the load, I’d hate to be a safe sex bottom these days – it puts them at a real competitive disadvantage. With so many bottoms available who will take a top’s load, why would a top choose a safe sex bottom? Makes me wonder how many bottoms get “forced” into barebacking just to so they can get fucked on a reasonably consistent basis…

But even with all those things I still people have an easier time hooking up now than they did before the Internet became so popular.